It is what it is

Such a busy day yesterday.  Matt and Dana took us to see St. Vincent Ferrer where they will be married in November this year.  Also saw Chandlers, the hall where the reception will be, Dana's dress, the bridesmaid's dresses (ordered Amanda's dress), Matt's hospital, ate lunch at a really cool place Wilde & Greene restaurant, Dana & I ordered my dress at Macy's for a smokin' hot deal, met her parents for pizza at Barnaby's.  Will post pictures when I have time.  Hope Lucy is ok.  Be back tonight. I love everything they have picked.  Top Notch, First Class!  PS  The woman at Bride's World was a real snob, the woman at Macy's could not have been more helpful.  It is what it is. Forgot one thing.  We visited the Bahai House of Worship.  It is open for all faiths. What a cool place. Beautiful architecture.

So, after a long conversation with my insurance carrier, the Valley Dentist as he will be called, was trying to pull some crap with Amanda.  It seems that after all she went through for a filling in a cracked sealant, they were trying to make her pay up front.  When I called and insisted they bill me they got all snotty and arrogant and tried to belittle me into paying.  A few days later, she tried to schedule a follow up that was needed to even up the edges of this filling (after they numbed her, they informed her they only do white fillings and those are 5X a silver filling and insurance won't pay), they told her he would not see her again unless she paid up front and she would be charged for this follow up.  He was mad that her mother called while she was there!!!  Well I was mad at his arrogance and that he was too worried about missing his lunch appointment and couldn't even up the filling when she was there.  After the call to the insurance company, I...