The (Mis) Adventures of Casey Dobos
THE (MIS) ADVENTURES OF CASEY
"Saving one dog will not change the world, but surely for that one
dog, the world will change forever. So did my life and the lives of my
entire family. Casey was part of and still is, a part of our family.
We are adjusting, but surely not forgetting. We trip over ourselves
trying to ignore the fact that she is gone. It is still just too sad to talk
about. We start things like "Oh remember when we were in the pool
last summer and we had to keep Casey off the deck....." or "Gee, it's
funny not to have Casey eating anything dropped, or not tripping over her as
she was always under foot." We reminisce without saying too much at
all. We are all thinking the same thoughts. We are all wondering if
we get another dog, what will it be like. We wonder if it is too soon.
We wonder if it is disrespectful......then think wait......to a dog???
She was so human-like. She knew what was going on. When she
could still
see, she would pout when
she saw suitcases. She would nuzzle up when we were sad or lonely.
She missed the kids when they would leave. She was so excited when
they came home. She was quite a beagle! She patrolled the yard.
Against what we weren't sure....the UPS truck? the mailman?
the meter reader? Anyone and anything. Squirrels, birds,
helicopters flying overhead. The picnic table was her perch. She
would get a running start and spend most of her time while in the yard on
watch. She had a 360 degree panoramic view. And that bark/howl.
It could be annoying but endearing. 6AM? Didn't matter.
She had created holes in the wood fence that enclosed 2 sides of our yard
so she could observe any other dogs that might be on a walk and of course,
bark! She loved all seasons and loved to lose herself and "hunt"
in the far corners of the yard and under the pool deck. Once I came home
to see her carrying what was left of a squirrel. In panic, I thought she
had been hurt and speed dialed our vet, wondering what should I do. They
assured me that she probably was not hurt, just clean her up and bury the
squirrel. Then my vet mused "must have been a slow squirrel."
Another time, I was planting flowers in the spring and came upon a bunny
that had been "Caseyed" and buried and saved for later.

We hadn't planned to have
another dog. When we were first married, I talked my husband into getting
a German Shepherd mix puppy. We had plenty of issues with her. She
was large, hard to walk, chewed everything, preferred to live outdoors, had 2
liters of puppies, (only one planned), barked at everything, had skin issues
that warranted a trip to MSU for observation, was displaced when the kids came
along and lived to be14. I vowed not to take in another dog. It
wasn't fair I said. We are gone too much I said. Matt begged for a
dog, "No" his dad said. But one day, there she was. Matt
and Amanda "rescued" Casey from a family that didn't want their one
and a half-year old beagle. They were going to take her to an animal
shelter. Matt was friends with the girl who owned her and had become
enamored with Casey. "Please" the kids begged when Casey came
for a visit. "We have to make a decision quickly" Matt
complained or they are going to get rid of her. All it took was one look
and I was hooked. We bought a second hand cage from a friend of Amanda's
and we were dog owners. My three kids were joyous to finally have a dog. Matt was a senior in high school, Amanda was in middle school and Andrew
had already entered Michigan Tech, so the dog fell to Matt & Amanda to take
care of.
We decided she should live
in the basement as Matt slept there and he wanted her with him. She did
not like the cage at night (she stayed in it during the day at first) and Matt
wanted her to stay downstairs so he hooked some weights to a chain to her
collar. Well, not meaning to, this created a major neck injury that
nearly did her in. On Memorial Day weekend, we spent time in the Doggie
ER and of course, they wanted to send her to a neurologist, which we did not
do, but several more trips to the vet resulted in a morphine patch that she had
to wear most of the summer for the injury. She recovered but not before
being carried out to the vet on the morning of Andrew's graduation party,
whimpering in pain. I thought I would never see her again. She
recovered and the shaved area, where the morphine patch was placed, was a
constant reminder of her pain until it finally grew hair over the winter.
That was just the
beginning. After she healed, she
became the rambunctious puppy we knew her to be. She managed to bite me and Amanda, though not seriously,
those bites hurt and drew blood.
Her shots were up to date so we weren’t worried about that, but why would
she do that? The answer from our
vet was that she was trying to establish who the “alpha dog” in this pack
was. We evidentially posed a
threat when we messed with her food, which on both occasions, we had. Eventually, she learned that we were
not a threat to her but still she would growl if she got mixed up.
This dog could eat! Because she was only 27 lbs., I thought
they needed to have food at all times and kept her bowl full. Well, instead of eating until she was
full, she would gobble a bowl-full so quickly that often, up it would come as
quickly as she had finished it. We
had to spread out a limited amount on a flat sheet so she was forced not to
inhale her “kibbles”.
Besides trips to the vet
for her shots, being “fixed” and check-ups, our trips began to include things
like the time she became sick and couldn’t keep anything down. The vet gave her a shot to make her
stop being sick, which seem to work but a couple days later, she was still
eating grass. I saw her in the
yard on a frosty morning carrying something in her mouth. When I went out to investigate what I
thought was probably a mouse, she dropped what turned out to be a wad of
elastic and fabric the size of my fist, that apparently, she had eaten out of a
pile of underwear, which was clean and folded, on a card table in the basement. We assume she used the laundry basket
full of folded towels to reach the folded underwear. When we found a pile on the floor with various parts missing
from the underwear, we wrongly assumed that she had just chewed this stuff up. Unbeknownst to us, she
literally ate these pieces and of course,
did not digest, creating a
blockage, which caused her to be constantly sick, unable to digest food. An entire week had gone by before the
incident in the yard. I later told
the vet who marveled that she was still alive and had she known this, Casey
would have had to undergone a very expensive surgery to remove the undigested
wad of underwear elastic. We all
tried very hard to be more careful after that.
She ate everything she
could get her teeth into. Backs of
shoes, armpits of t-shirts, pool toys, and anything that came down the laundry
chute that had been worn like socks or underwear. We quickly learned another method for dispatching laundry to
the basement. Still she managed to
occasionally make a snack out of dirty clothes that were forgotten and rolled
in a towel, or accidentally put in a pile somewhere. It would be a race to the basement with
her! She also could open the
unlatched pantry with her nose and devour anything left within her reach that
she could eat. Dog cookies (once
at almost a whole box), rice-a-roni, Hamburger Helper, macaroni & cheese,
you get the idea. None of this
stuff was cooked, she ate it right out of the box. My favorite is the time there was a full sheet of brownies
that were frosted and very rich, in the basement refrigerator. Someone took the pan out and put it on
the washer & dryer to get something else in or out of the fridge. The pan sat forgotten except by
Casey. She somehow managed to pull
the entire pan down and when I found her, she was straddled over the pan eating
as fast as she could. I could only
guess she ate about a quarter of the sheet.
Her first Thanksgiving
with us proved to be a challenge.
She was always underfoot.
Someone probably banished her to the basement and everyone felt sorry
for her so they kept slipping her turkey, bits of gravy and mashed potatoes,
and other bits of Thanksgiving bounty. The next day, the entire family drove to the Christmas
tree farm and thought it would be fun to take Casey in the car and have her in
our annual Christmas photo. Amanda
was in the 3rd seat of the Mountaineer with Casey when suddenly
there was a terrible odor that permeated the entire car. Of course, the guys all blamed each
other! The entire trip consisted
of Amanda’s “oh no” and immediately 4 electric Mountaineer windows all went
down as quickly as humanly possible.
Next day, back to the vet for some serious scolding about the
damage that can be done to a
canine consuming human food, and some “treatments” for Casey’s upset stomach.
Somehow, we managed to get
a routine with Casey and learned what not to leave around, not to feed her
etc. Life again, became
normal. Amanda and her father even
built her a dog house that she adored.
She spent hours in there napping or if we had a rain when she was
outside, she knew where to go. To
make her more comfortable, we gave her an old blanket which was, I suppose, a
bit of a mistake. When things got
out of control, like someone in a neighbors yard she didn’t know, or an animal
nearby, she would drag the blanket around the yard and shake it like a
rattle. Eventually she started
chewing holes in the blanket. One
day I came home to find her completely garmented in the blanket, dragging it
around the yard, with her head sticking out of one of the holes. She had gotten stuck in it and could
not get out. It was then I
realized that she could have been seriously hurt and that was the end of the
blanket without us being home or in the yard.
Casey loved going for
walks. I only had to go after her
leash and she was at the door ready.
I loved to dress her up in colorful bandanas and sometimes a sweater or
shirt. On this particular day,
Andrew, Amanda and I adorned her in a red, white & blue bandana and headed
up the street to the Memorial Day parade our town was having. She behaved perfectly until the float
with the Vietnam Veterans got close.
They, to the delight of the crowd, were shooting blanks that were very
loud. Casey, not a fan of loud,
slipped her harness and leash and was off down the sidewalk lickety-split. Andrew had the leash and dropped it
like a hot potato, was off and running but could not catch up. Several officers were standing by the
corner of the street a block away and saw Casey running but could do
nothing. She crossed the street
(we were so lucky there were no cars around), veered into a yard that was to
our good fortune, fenced in. Only
then did we catch up with one very nervous, scared-to-death young beagle. I never knew my son could run like that
(or Casey).
Being a beagle is hard
work. They have a keen sense of
smell. Even in her last years when
her hearing and eyesight were gone, she could still smell something good a mile
away. One weekend, our family went
to Traverse City to celebrate our Anniversary and just hang out with our oldest
son and some of his friends. Our
younger son Matt had to work and stayed home with Casey. His girlfriend was over at our house
and they were watching a movie.
Casey asked to go out and evidentially met with a skunk. As they let her back in, the telltale
odor preceded her but it was too late.
Matt called us to tell us what had happened. Not that we could do anything at that point but advise him
on what to do. They tried all
sorts of bathing remedies and nothing worked. Even after our return, I tried
several tried and true mixtures to get rid of the smell. On the white stripe of her “beagle
face” was a yellow stripe from that skunk, that for many weeks we were not able
to scrub off. His girlfriend
had to get rid of her purse because she had no way to get rid of the odor of
Pepe’ Le Pew.
One summer, about 4 years
ago, my husband and kids decided we needed a new brick patio. Amanda was
graduating from high school and as with the two boys, we were celebrating with
a large outdoor summer party.
All the supplies were in the yard and the patio took awhile to put
together. To this day, the vet
does not know if it was the slag sand that we caught Casey eating or she really had what is called
“Leptosporosis” for which she had been vaccinated against but our vet explained
that there are more varieties of this disease than what the vaccine
covers. (Leptosporosis is a
disease that dogs can acquire by getting into any wild animal urine or feces,
such as raccoon, skunk, etc. that have this condition.) It can cause a dog to become very ill,
not able to keep food down and eventually kidney failure. Well guess what? Yup she did. After several vet trips, they were able to diagnose the
kidney failure. We had to decide
what to do. I was facing an empty
nest in the fall and I was not ready to give up my dog too. I was told this was bad and the vet
wasn’t sure of the prognosis but she would try.
For a week, she was
boarded at the vets with an IV for hydration and anti-biotics. She barely ate and was losing
weight. I would go and visit her
twice a day. Some times I could
take her out for a bit of a walk but the IV stayed in her leg. I was getting ready for Amanda’s
graduation party that was scheduled for that Saturday. Every few days they would take blood
from Casey and check her levels and they seemed to be improving. Come Saturday, I had to pick her up and
take her to a 24 hour Emergency Vet care hospital to spend the weekend as our
vet closed for the weekend. Well,
I brought her home for a few hours in between. She was so glad to see her home and family, it broke my
heart to take her to her weekend get-away!
We continued to visit her
over the weekend and on Monday I had to return her to the vets. Within a couple of days, she was ready
to come home. Once home, I could
only give her chicken or beef that was fully cooked, rinsed and drained, pureed
in the blender as often as she would eat it. Eventually she graduated to a special dog food that again
had to be pureed in the blender and put into a large syringe that I could force
down her. What a messy job. Good thing I was home for the summer as
I did this 3 times a day. I also
had to take her back to the vet every other day for infusion of fluid. After a couple of days, they showed me
how to do this. I had an IV bag of
fluid that I had to, using a large sterile needle, place under her skin and
keep a measure of how many cc’s were given. I have never poked anyone or anything in my life so even
after a trial run in the office, I was so scared that I called a nurse friend
of mine who came over and did it with me the first time. Eventually, every other day became
every three days and after about a month, we were able to stop. She was eating on her own and gaining
ounces here and there. Activity
was slow and limited at first but eventually by summer’s end, we were back to a
fully recovered healthy (and somewhat grayer) beagle. During this summer, we even took her to Chicago to visit
Matt in his apartment and manage all her medicinal paraphernalia. I was not about to give up on her. I still have a hard time believing that
we went through what we went through.
We are not even going to discuss the bills from all of this. Let’s just say that I could have bought
a new piano, had a bathroom remodeled AND taken a very nice vacation but hey,
it bought us four more years with Ms. Muttskey!
That was the worst of the
mid-adventures of our “Free” beagle.
I am sure that there are some incidents that I have forgotten but I will
never forget my Casey. I don’t get
through a single day without thinking about her and wondering. Did we do the right thing? Did we wait too long? Should we have done more? Was there something we didn’t think of? Was it……..????
My birthday is coming soon
and there is only one thing I want but my logical mind knows I cannot have her
back. Every night when I am out
walking, I miss her. Every day, in
the house or in my yard, I miss her.
I think if dogs are capable of thinking these things, she would want us
to get another dog. Not to replace
her but to help ease the continual void.
I have put everything connected to “dog” away. I put her bed in a garbage bag and got rid of it. I could not stand to see anything
connected to her continue to be visible.
I was shopping at Michaels
and came across a garden stone project that you can make for your dog. I was thinking of ordering one but
bought this instead for Amanda and I to create when she came home to visit. I could not bring Casey home to be
buried in the yard like Marley was.
I could not do the “ashes” thing like some of my dog-lover friends have.
I could not even be with her on that fateful day. I had to go to school.
My husband took her but I said my goodbyes the night before. I knew it was time. I only said “see ya” when I left the
house.
I have a thousand pictures of her, her bandanas and
tags. I have posted some poems
that were sent to me by my dog loving friends, on my blog “It Is What It Is”. I would love to have her garden stone read how this writing
opens “Saving one dog will not change the world, but surely for that one dog,
the world will change forever”, however, I don’t want the stone to take up half
of the yard so, a small garden stone that will read “Casey, the best dog ever”
will soon be created. I wish I
could put her paw print in the middle of the stone. Maybe a photo?
How about a micro-chip with this story?
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